Tuesday, 31 July 2012

Maghloob

Patience means "I surrender my will to your will. Let you be my will, so whenever I am ripe, whenever-if it takes an eternity it is okay-I will trust, I will hope, I will not lose my heart, I will not be disheartened.


-Osho



Patience
 shows that you have faith, that you care no matter what happens, that the person means more than the problems.Patience shows your willingness to love and to accept.

Sunday, 29 July 2012

Anjaanepan se jaana (My Martian Friend)

We often judge people from their work. A cute little martian friend of mine is one such crazy soul who is known for his work. He knows many people, and those many people know his work, appreciate it. But these 'many' don't really know him.

There is more to him than his craziness, his perfection and his ideas, he is maybe a crazy silly human but people forget that he's a human. For most of the people around him he is just a perfect machine, a perfect alien . His identity is his work and not the real him. People love his work so much that they don't see anything else beyond that.

Sometimes I think he's crazy and weird because he knows that's the only way people will bother to know him , he doesn't let people love him because he's scared that he doesn't deserves to be loved.

Tell you what my tiny friend, you have a soul full of love. Beneath all your layers, all the craziness and weirdness, lies a space full of love, care and a space where you are a small innocent kid . All your life a genius has been overpowering that kid, this time let that kid overpower the genius and see the miracles happen.



Love people for who they are and not just for what they deliver. A human being is more important than his work.


Time to behave and treat others like human beings.

Saturday, 19 May 2012

Meera se Meera ki Kaayant tak


All our lives we search for that one perfect love which fulfills all our expectations, all our dreams, makes us happy, never judges us and the flow of love is perennial, but we all fail to find that love. The reason is that its practically impossible for a human being to fulfill  all our expectations and as humans its difficult for us to love another human being beyond a point.I think the level of expectations that we all have, can only be fulfilled by the universe.

One always wants a Tiara on his head, the Tiara of the universe that constantly showers love and the one that never lets us down. i think only universe is selfless and infinite enough to accept us the way we are and love  us back as much as we want. The purest form of love I think is the Meera love for, lets say, The Universe.

The purest way is the Meera way because through that one surrenders to the universe completely and all the pain, the sadness all goes away. One find peace inside and there comes a point when one merges with the universe and becomes one, becomes the Universe. Becomes infinite like universe, becomes selfless, giving and powerful like the universe. The love of universe is unfathomable, it is the purest and most selfless love one can think of. It only gives and gives and embraces everyone like its child and never complains, it is THE MOTHER of Love.

Initially one experiences that love, when one goes the Meera way, and later on one becomes that love.The goal is not to become Meera but the goal is to become the Universe. 

I don't want the Universe's Tiara all my life, I want to become that Tiara on people's head , that's the purpose of my life.

Friday, 27 April 2012

Khwab aur Shiddat

When you don't know what to do, don't do anything.Let the universe show you it's miracle.Till then have faith, keep your hopes high and smile. Fake it till you make it :) 

There are situations in life(many times in life) when we don't know what to do, how to react, how to feel and what to say and how to say it. There are relationships about which we are confused, people whom we cant really judge, problems we cant solve, when such a thing happens (which happens a lot to me) I've learned to do nothing and just go with the flow and let universe decide. The best things that I've had are the things that I've not worked for and have them from universe. Its like universe has a deal with me, God says to me "Bineka all you have to do is, have a desire and have the faith that I'll make that desire come true for you. Don't use your mind and  destroy my plan. Just shut up and watch me do a miracle." So I generally let the universe take in charge. Some people may think of this as an excuse for laziness but trust me every time that I'v  put in efforts to make my dream come true, I've screwed it up. Here I don't mean dreams like finishing up with my office work or college exams, because for them I actually  have to work. Dreams means like attaining peace within, and many other dreams which I cant put it in words but just visualize them as soon as I close my eyes. Maybe its law of attraction, the secret and as Joel Osteen says " Fake it till you make it." I act like I've reached where I wanted to and before I realize it, I am actually there. But one thing that is necessary here is keeping the faith that no matter what happens The Universe is by my side and it loves me. Universe's plan is better than mine and I am the child of most high God.


" Itni shidad se tumhe chahne ki koshish ki hai,
ki har zaare ne mujhe tumse milane ki koshish ki hai
kehte hai agar kisi cheez ko sache dil se chaho
toh puri kayanat tumhe usse milane mei jooot jati hai."


                                                   - Om Shanti Om 

Thursday, 19 April 2012

I am not anyone, I am me

                   -Blair Waldrof (Gossip Girl)

Tuesday, 10 April 2012

Pariyon ki khahani

While I was getting ready today for work and I just saw this old ring which probably my sister hadn't worn in ages. I just put it on as it matched with my clothes. The moment I put it on, it just made me smile. I dont know why. It did not remind of anyone('coz I haven't been given a ring by anyone, yet), it wasn't a diamond ring either. Its almost the end of the day but still I cant take off my eyes from the ring. Maybe its the 'woman' thing you know, the love for delicate and silver things, or maybe it reminds me of all romantic movies and fairy-tales where the guy goes on his knees for a woman to accept the ring. (the only thing I like about marriage is when the guy proposes and while the wedding they exchange the vows).


Not that I wish to get married or something like that. Its just that its amazing how women find romance in every little thing be a wedding white gown, or a simple little ring or even a photo-frame that has a picture of  a couple.No matter how much, we women, become workaholic or stubborn, grow old or whatsoever there's always a little girl deep down who believes in fairy-tales and romance and that prince charming, the mermaids, the tiaras, the butterfly, the magical  world.


"We were both young when I first saw you
I close my eyes
And the flashback starts 
I'm standing there."
                              -Love story by Taylor Swift










*Image taken from google*



Friday, 3 February 2012

Chalo aaj kisi ko apnale


All the comparisons and the criticism that you and I have gone through let’s make sure nobody else around us gets to go through the same. Don't compare what/who is good or bad, let's not judge others like someone judged us. We never felt good when our parents/teachers compared us with other kids; we still don’t like it, so if we don’t like it that means other people don’t like it either. So let us treat others the way we want to be treated.  It’s not about winning or losing, let it be winning and just winning for others. Love everyone or to the least don't hate anyone.  

The best and the most difficult thing in this world is; to accept people the way they are, just let them be just like you let the river, the sun be.  You don’t argue with a river for you don’t like the way it flows do you? Why don’t you? Because you know that the universe has made it this way and so it’s nothing but perfect but we forget that the same universe which has made the river has made each of us too and we are perfect just the way we are. So let’s try and not change the people around us because love is about deep acceptance.

It’s all about freedom, freedom ‘To be’